Throw out that dating list!

I was reading an article the other day about a woman who got married in her twenties and then got divorced in her thirties. She was saying that a couple years in she realized she was unhappy, but all her friends who got married the same time seemed happy so she stuck with it. Then when one couple in the friend group got divorced it was like a domino effect. A whole bunch of the group all got divorced within two years. That one couple who first divorced allowed the other couples to finally talk about how unhappy they were. Her conclusion at the end of the article was that she married the man she thought she should marry, not the man she needed. I thought that was a really interesting observation.
I know when I was single my friends and I would talk about “the list” we had of things we wanted in a potential partner. Each friend’s list was very specific—the person had to be this tall, have this color of eyes, have this certain physique. Most of our lists had at least ten items on them, mostly the physical attributes, or personality traits we knew we had to have to be happy. I can tell you a few things I remember that were on my list —the dude had to be over six foot two, had to have dark hair, preferably green eyes, and had to be a few years older than I was. There were other things on the list about a sense of humor and being smart, but really there was a specific “type” I was looking for when I was dating. I dated a few dudes that perfectly matched up with my list, but I never clicked with any of them. Then I met this guy who had blond hair, was both shorter and younger than I was. The more I was around him, the more I liked him. At some point, I threw my list out. I realized how stupid those lists we made were. How much we were limiting ourselves by sticking to a specific type that we had decided we wanted. How we weren’t allowing ourselves to get to know and date the person who was actually the best match for us, the person we actually needed.
On October 14th this year Todd and I will have been married for 24 years. I can count the happily married couples I know on my fingers. We are one of those couples. I seriously dig my husband just as much as I did when I first met him. I sometimes get people asking me what is the secret to being happily married for over twenty years? My advice –throw out the list and find the partner who you need. Someone who you adore. Someone who makes you a better person just by being with them. Someone you can hang out with, and do nothing with, and still have fun. Someone who makes you laugh and makes you think. Throw out that list! Date a lot of different types of people and keep dating until you find the one you can’t live without. Just my two cents.
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Working on that first draft.

When I’m working on a story I get a lot of ideas for it when I first start to fall asleep. Which means often I’m popping up every five minutes and typing the ideas into my phone so I don’t lose them. If I don’t immediately write them down I’ll forget them. Last night I had an idea for a really cool twist in the story. The best part of writing is when you are working on the first draft and writing the story just to entertain yourself. That’s my favorite part of writing. Later you have to edit and worry if the story is working. Worry if the readers will like it. But during the first draft you put that all out of your head and just write for fun.

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What happens when you get a copy of Awakening for your birthday?

First you read the back cover. Then you get to the part where the Hero strangles the Heroine during a Dark Ritual. Happy Birthday Sydney from North Carolina!! I hope you like Awakening!

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A Reality Check About Making a Living Writing

I get a lot of young readers asking about writing books as a career. They are under the impression that you can make a full-time living writing. That all of us out there writing and selling our books are making a lot of money. The harsh reality is that very few authors make enough money to write full-time. Of all my writing friends I only have two friends who write full time. The rest of my writing friends all have other jobs to help support themselves.
If you are one of the lucky few you put your books out there and they hit like lightning and you sell a zillion copies. But that only happens to a very small percentage of the people writing. The rest of us are nowhere close to making enough money to write full-time.
I spent two years writing the four books in the Dark Ritual series and then I spent 8 months doing the publishing edits on the books. So that’s 2 years and 8 months working most days on the books. On the side, I worked a part-time gig running a book review website. During that 2 years and 8 months working on the books, I made no money from the books.
How much money did my books make once they were released? In my contract, it states that I can’t talk about specifics when it comes to the publishing house business, so I can’t give you exact numbers of how much my books made, but I can tell you it’s less than you would make in a year working a part time job.
Once the books came out I spent a lot of my time and money on promoting the books. I did some Facebook ads, I did a bunch of giveaways, I went on an online book tour and schedule an online book release shout out. A few of the promotions my publishing house paid for, but the rest of it came out of my pocket.
You sometimes see Authors get cranky and write rant posts about how readers say they love their work, but they don’t buy their books. I can understand the crankiness. It’s tough when you put all your spare time into writing and yet you have readers expecting you to put out all your writing for free. It does drive you nuts since you know that those same readers if the roles were reversed, would never want to give away for free something that they put so much time and effort into. You see authors get cranky because fans expect them to write more and more, yet no one buys their work. That’s also understandable. As a writer, you can’t help, but wonder why the fans won’t support you by buying your stories if they love them so much. As a writer you know if the fans would only buy your books, and if you could sell enough copies, you could spend all your time just working away and writing.
Writing is a very tough gig. You get a lot of rejection along the way as you are submitting your work to agents and publishing houses. Once your work gets out there you get plenty of nasty reviews that make you want to take up drinking. And then you can’t help but compare yourself to those few successful authors who are making a full-time living writing and you find yourself some days wallowing and wondering why your sales aren’t so great. You find yourself ranting. You find yourself full of doubt. You find yourself freaking out, totally convinced that your writing sucks. You vow you will give up writing completely. And then you get an idea for another story or a character whispers something in your ear, and you can’t help it, you find yourself back at your laptop pounding away on a story. You write because you love it. You write because it helps keep you sane. You hope that one day you’ll make it big and you’ll be able to make a full-time living writing, but the reality is that will probably never happen.
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Last chance to read Awakening on Wattpad!

awakengingcoverLast chance to read Awakening on Wattpad! It’s coming down off Wattpad tomorrow (8/15) night. Get reading! https://www.wattpad.com/story/5529034-awakening-the-dark-rituals-book-1-wattpad-featured

 

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The Wattpad Block Summer Party is live!

Stop by every day and check out the cool posts by rocken Wattpad authors. There is a huge list of giveaways you can enter. My Post is schedule to go live on August 21st, so make sure to stop by and say howdy! And help us spread the word about the party! https://www.wattpad.com/story/72748267-wattpad-block-party-summer-edition-iiWattpad Block Party – Summer Edition II – Giveaway Link :http://bit.ly/2adU8gh

p.s. one of the things I’m giving away at the Wattpad block party: One grand prize winner will be picked for 30 days of writing mentoring. For 30 days Catrina will answer any questions you have about writing, she’ll pass on writing tips, and she will be available for you to bug every day for a solid month. https://www.rafflecopter.com/rafl/display/27854a79114/

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The Dark Ritual Books on sale right now on Amazon! Awakening is free!

The Dark Ritual Books on sale right now on Amazon! Awakening is free!

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Hey guys I’m heading to the RWA writing conference in San Diego on Wed. I arranged with my publishing house to do an Amazon sale while I’m at the conference. So from today until 7/24/2016 you can get your own copy of Awakening for free on Amazon! And the other books in the series are on sale:

Awakening – Free

Possession – 99 cents

Revenant – $1.99

Legion – $2.99

That means you can get all the books in the series right now on Amazon for only $5.99. The cost of all four books for what one usually cost. That’s a crazy cool sale! And I don’t know when they will be going on sale again (probably not until next year).

So go snag your own copy of Awakening for free while you can. And if you wanted to get the other books in the series — now is your chance to snag them while they are on sale.

Sale ends 7/24/2016

And blowing kisses to everyone who has bought my books. It means more to me than you could ever know.

Over and out,

Cat

 

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Shout out to any Arizona Evil Minions and Wattpaders!

You can now buy a signed print copy of my YA Paranormal/Horror series The Dark Rituals books at the Changing Hands Bookstore in Tempe, AZ. Love that bookstore! The Dark Rituals 4 book series had over 3 million reads on Wattpad. Get your print copy today at:
Changing Hands Tempe
6428 S McClintock Dr, Tempe, AZ 85283
Mon-Fri: 10-9 | Sat: 9-9 | Sun: 10-6
http://www.changinghands.com/changinghandstempe
Please pass around to your AZ peeps. Over and out!
http://www.catrinaburgess.com/

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Ask your local Library if they have the Dark Ritual books

I was talking to a librarian who was telling me that they often will buy a book for their library based just on someone coming in and asking for it. I would love to see the Dark Rituals in libraries all across the US. And how about other countries! If you want to do me a huge favor go into your local library and ask them if they have The Dark Ritual books by Catrina Burgess. If they don’t have them ask them if they can get them in. 😉

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shadowcastbookcover2I’ve had a couple questions about the new story I’m working on Shadowcast. Shadowcast is the prequel to Awakening. It’s set in the 1920’s. Here’s the deal about the book–I signed a contract for the Dark Rituals with FFFDig, but this next story is mine to do with what I wish, so I decided to post it on Wattpad as I’m working on it. I have the first three Wattpad chapters up with more to come hopefully every week. You can check it out ere…. https://www.wattpad.com/story/73618184-shadowcast-the-dark-past
 
P.s. If you haven’t read Awakening yet you can read the whole story on Wattpad until 8/15/2016 https://www.wattpad.com/story/5529034-awakening-the-dark-rituals-book-1-wattpad-featured
 
First chapter of ShadowCast for you to check out….this is a work in progress (not the fully edited and polished version)
 
Shadowcast by Catrina Burgess
 
The year is 1925
 
Sophie wandered the darkened house, like a ghost moving through someone else’s home. A flash of lightning threw twisting shadows across the room and through her already charged nerves. She tried to shake off the anxiety that thunderstorms always caused her. Please god, don’t ever let me see the dead. The thought of her mother’s spirit suddenly appearing sent a violent shudder through her. She jerked her head as she caught a flash of movement out of the corner of her eye. She forced herself to turn and look into a dark corner. There was nothing there. There was no one here; she was alone in the parlor.
 
Sophie moved in a small island of flickering candlelight and looked down at the goosebumps covering the exposed skin on her forearms. This nightgown used to cover her arms all the way to her wrists, but she had outgrown it. She looked up and caught her flickering reflection in the mirror. The girl looking back at her was no longer a little girl; she was becoming a young woman. At fifteen, her forehead was too broad, the lines of her face too sharp, to angular, to ever be considered beautiful. Her Scottish heritage was evident in the pale skin and long dark curly hair kissed with auburn highlights. It was her eyes that drew the most comments. Large green eyes brimmed with thick dark lashes. Cat eyes, her father called them. Eyes that seemed to change color with her mood. They were sometimes green, other times they held a hint of blue, and when she was angry they glowed until they became almost silver.
 
If eyes were the window to your soul, what did people see when they looked into hers, she wondered. She had seen too much, been through too much hardship in her fifteen years, and yet the eyes staring back at her weren’t full of hatred for the world. They didn’t have a hard edge, somehow they still held a certain innocence, a naivete.
 
She looked away, embarrassed. Her fingers picked at a hole on the edge of the sleeve. She looked down at the torn material. She would try to mend it, yet again. There was never enough money to buy new clothes, often barely enough money to keep a roof over their heads.
 
The wood floor creaked. Her head shot up. She could have sworn another shadow moved. The candles threw shadows against the walls and made her imagination run wild. Her gaze swung around the room. A circular table sat in the middle of the room perched on top of a Persian rug. An ornately decorated mirror hung on one wall, so massive it almost covered it entirely. Thick black drapes surrounded the bay windows and on the other wall hung a strange, and slightly unsettling tribal mask. At first glance, it looked like some type of deer or antelope, but on closer inspection the mask took on a more human shape. The horns that jutted out from the top become devilish in nature. She wondered, not for the first time, where her father had gotten the mask. Probably bought it off some foreign sailor down at the docks. She knew he walked down there late at night. He roamed the streets nowadays from dusk to dawn. Her father would be home soon. He seldom slept. He barely ate. Three weeks ago, when they buried her mother, all life, all reason had left her father’s eyes. He was a shell of a man with only one purpose left — to contact his beloved Rose.
 
She looked around at his room he had created. The dark shadows, the black drapes, the devilish mask — it was all there to cultivate a certain environment. One that was more conducive to the spirit world. That’s what he would say if you asked him. But she knew the truth. It was what the clients expected. What they paid for. A certain amount of chills and thrills that went along with every séance.
 
Some of them came for pure entertainment. But there were many that showed up with hearts full of sorrow. With a desperate need, a soul-wrenching desire, to see a lost loved one. And those were the ones Sophie felt sorry for. The fact that her father was now one of them filled her with deep sadness and confusion. Her father was making the rounds on the séance circuit. He had sat with no less than five psychics in the last two weeks. When she first heard the news she had been incredulous. When she confronted him, he calmly explained to her that he needed their counseling, their help in finding his beloved Rose. He was frantic to get word from Rose from the other side of the river — the afterlife.
 
She could no longer deny it — a man who had spent a lifetime pretending to speak to the dead now thought he actually could. Sophie wasn’t sure how or when her father’s mind had snapped. But it had, and she had to face the truth — sometime after her mother’s death her father made the transformation from con artist into one of the marks.
 
There was a loud bang at the bay windows. Sophie spun around. She could make out the tree branch knocking against the glass panes. The wind had picked up outside. The storm’s fury was increasing. All day dark clouds had hung threatening overhead in the sky. Another bang, followed by the sound of rain pelting against the roof.
 
Sophie made her way to a side table and carefully lifted an ornate silver candle holder filled with a lit red candlestick. She raised the candle high into the air and made her way down the hallway and into the dark kitchen. No candles burned in the kitchen. It was odd being in here at night when things were quiet and calm. Gone were the normal hustle and bustle, the frantic activity and hurried voices that normally filled this room in the daytime. A cook and a kitchen maid used this space to create lavish cakes and tarts each day.
 
You can’t charge them a small fortune and not give them something to gobble down, her father was fond of saying.
 
He did that, charged the rich a small fortune to talk to their departed. People so desperate to hear any word from those loved ones on the other side they would shell out money to partake in one of her father’s famous séances.
 
She walked over and opened the back door. She stood in the doorway and sighed out loud as raindrops splashed against her face.
 
She could leave. Walk out the door and head off in search of her mother’s people. It was something she daydreamed about ever since her mother’s death. But guilt filled her, as it always did, at the thought. She couldn’t leave her father. She had made a promise to her mother, on her deathbed, that she wouldn’t abandon him. It was not an easy promise to keep — Colin Campbell was not an easy man to live with. Her father was incapable of showing any real feelings or affection. He could put it on, fake at emotion when he needed to. During séances, he became a man full of empathy and passion, at least that’s what the marks always saw, but what they saw was just an act, put on by a gifted actor. A gifted con artist. When the séances were over, and the marks had gone home, her father would retreat back to his true self — a man who seldom talked and hardly ever smiled. Someone who spent most of his time alone in his bedroom with a whiskey bottle. A man who seemed to have little time or energy for his family.
 
When her mother was alive, she had always made excuses for him. Her mother would regale her with tales of a man full of laughter, full of life. But that man had disappeared when Sophie was born. No matter what her mother said Sophie had always known the truth — her father didn’t love her. At least not in the way most fathers loved their children. There were no fatherly hugs, no kisses on the cheek, no stories read at bedtime. Her father never took her to play at the park. He treated her more as a nuisance.
 
The desire to leave and be free was so strong she could almost hear her mother’s voice on the wind calling out for her to run. To leave this place before it was too late. But she knew it was just her imagination.
 
Ever since her mother’s death Sophie would turn a corner and, for the briefest moment, she thought she could see her mother’s form standing down at the far end of the hallway. Or sometimes she could have sworn she could hear her mother calling out to her. But in her heart, she knew it was just the grief-filled hallucinations of a young girl who desperately missed her mother.
 
Sophie leaned forward and as she did a burst of wind blew out the candle flame, throwing her into utter darkness. She looked out into the ink black night. If the moon was out, it was now covered in thick storm clouds. A sudden movement caught her attention. Was there something standing at the back of the yard? A dark form, a dark shadow by the back fence? She stood, transfixed, staring at it. And then there was a murmur of sound carried on the wind. Sophie’s heart thumped hard in her chest. There it was again — a murmuring of voices as if there were people talking, just out of earshot. If she took a step, maybe two into the yard she might be able to hear what they were saying.
 
Every instinct inside her told her not to move forward, but she did. Almost as though she was no longer in charge of her limbs or her mind she found herself inching out into the darkness until she stood in the middle of the yard. The cool, wet grass beneath her bare feet, she stood staring at the back fence, her ears straining to try and make sense of the sounds she was hearing. Rain poured down from the sky, and before long her hair was plastered against her face, her nightgown was soaked. And yet she kept standing there in the rain. It wasn’t until she began to shiver that she seemed to catch herself and come back to her senses. She was standing in the rain getting soaked, for no good reason. There was nothing out there. It was all in her imagination. She had a wild imagination, one that her mother had teased her about, and her father now condoned her for.
 
She shook her head as if trying to clear her thoughts and her senses. There is nothing out here. She kept repeating the words over and over to herself as she made her way back inside the house.
 
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Want to read more? I’m posting chapters as I get them done over on Wattpad – https://www.wattpad.com/story/73618184-shadowcast-the-dark-past
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